Life and Religion
|Seven tips for beating holiday blues|
|'Tis the season for holiday stress|
|Published Monday, December 16, 2013|
|The holiday season is generally a delightful time of year. But for many Americans it's a season marked with feelings of loneliness, stress and depression.|
Many people find the holidays a delightful, upbeat time of year. But for others, it can be a lonely, stressful time.
Feelings of sadness, low energy, loneliness and wistfulness can be hard to cope with, particularly if you’ve lost a loved one at this time of year or will be away from your family during the holidays.
If you are feeling empty or sad while everyone around you seems to be having fun, you can make practical changes that allow you to feel less stressed and more relaxed.
First, it is important to recognize stressors that may lead to feeling blue and overstressed. Try to work on reducing these stressors throughout the year so the holidays will be more joyful.
Next, recognize that you can choose a new way of thinking that reduces holiday stress and sadness.
Keep in mind that unrealistic perceptions and expectations are part of every holiday season. Some people feel so stressed and anxious at this time of year they want to be left alone. But you can work on having a new attitude of looking forward to joining in the festivities of the season.
Managing daily stress
If you have battled anxiety, stress and low energy during the holidays, you are probably looking for a respite the stressors that seem to make life miserable.
Think of stress this way. Stress is crucial if you are in a crisis. Stress is a natural and important biological “fight or flight” response. The body is designed for short bursts of activity, but the ongoing nature of daily stress often means that the system’s switch is constantly “on.”
Left untreated, constant stress takes a toll on the body and can lead to or exacerbate other complicated health issues.
Seven tips to make your holidays more meaningful
Use these tips to make this holiday season the best it can be – a season of less stress and more meaning for you and your family.
1. Take care of yourself by eating right. People tend to skip meals, eat on the run, and eat more sugar during the holidays. Manage stress by managing your health.
2. Give yourself permission to feel a mix of emotions during the holidays. Most people feel an ebb and flow of emotions throughout the year but often more so during holidays because it is a season that evokes memories of the past.
3. It is okay to spend time taking care of yourself. When you do, you’ll be more apt to relax and enjoy the season. People have different levels of needs so pay attention to your own unique circumstances.
4. Give yourself permission to have more control in your life. You don’t have to say ‘yes’ to every holiday invitation or request.
5. Time management is very important for reducing stress. For example, let some of your children or grandchildren prepare holiday meals, bake cookies or help decorate the house.
6. Share responsibilities. Don’t be too afraid or embarrassed to ask for help. Delegate holiday tasks so you’re not overstressed with deadlines.
7. Don’t have unrealistic expectations about what you can and can‘t do during the holidays. Give yourself credit for what you can do and recognize you’re not superhuman. When you do, you’ll have a more enjoyable holiday season.
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